...Please don't comment on the term homosexual itself. Reality is, that term IS used institutionally by our society.Here are some sample possible answers:
...The question refers to ALL sub-categories of the community: Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Intersexual, Transgender, etc. What attributes determine Gay vs Straight; Lesbian vs Straight; Bisexual vs Straight?
...The question is about YOUR definition of the term, not about what CAUSES homosexuality, or any moral values one might connect to the community.
1. A person's homosexual if they felt--anytime in their life--even the slightest twinkling of interest for a person with similar genital appearance....And no waffling! You've got to put SOMETHING on that form. What do you put and how did you decide?
2. A person's homosexual if they--anytime in their life--ever had sexual intercourse with a person with similar genital appearance.
3. A person's homosexual if they--anytime in their life--ever had sexual intercourse with a person with the same number of Y-chromosomes, regardless of genital appearance.
4. A person's homosexual if they REGULARLY have sexual intercourse with a person or people with similar genital appearance.
5. A person's homosexual if their closest, dearest lifelong friend has (or had) similar genital appearance--whether or not they actually engaged in sexual activity.
6. A person's homosexual if they feel that they are. lt's about inner feelings and has nothing to do with actual behavior.
7. A person's homosexual if they feel most comfortable & secure when they're around other "homosexuals". It's membership in a community, and has nothing to do with actual behavior.
8. Any person I don't like is a homosexual. It's more about my mood than their actual behavior.